You know how stories end? Slowly, then all at once.
The career that fit like armor now feels like a costume.
The relationship script you memorized has no next lines.
Even your spiritual practices taste like yesterday's bread.
You're between stories.
And despite what everyone tells you,
this isn't a problem to fix.
Meet Your Guide
I'm Vanessa. I guide people through thresholds—those times when life unmakes us so we can become. Through astrology, story medicine, and old-fashioned witnessing, I help you romance the unknown instead of white-knuckling through it.
Currently tending:
Individual threshold guidance for life's crossings
Exploring: Forbidden Doors: Romance-as-Medicine Intensive
Hosting: For Your Pleasure Book Club
Podcasting about courting change with the curiosity of lovers
Writing on why romance novels might be archetypal medicine for the times
Current Offerings
Two paths for romance readers ready to
decode their midnight wisdom
Forbidden Doors
Where Your Reading Life Becomes Your Map
Five doors culture taught you to close: body, rage, pleasure, instinct, sovereignty; and the romance novels that are helping you reopen them.
A 6-week experience for women ready to discover what their books, their tropes, and their hunger already know.
Saturdays starting May 16.
For Your Pleasure Book Club
A monthly gathering for romance readers exploring what their stories awaken
