You know how stories end? Slowly, then all at once.

The career that fit like armor now feels like a costume.

The relationship script you memorized has no next lines.

Even your spiritual practices taste like yesterday's bread.

You're between stories.

And despite what everyone tells you,
this isn't a problem to fix.

A woman with reddish hair sitting on a large piece of driftwood on a beach with tall grass and the ocean in the background.

Meet Your Guide

I'm Vanessa. I guide people through thresholds—those times when life unmakes us so we can become. Through astrology, story medicine, and old-fashioned witnessing, I help you romance the unknown instead of white-knuckling through it.

Currently tending:

Individual threshold guidance for life's crossings
Hosting: For Your Pleasure Book Club
Podcasting about courting change with the curiosity of lovers
Writing on why romance novels might be archetypal medicine for the times

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For Your Pleasure Book Club

Monthly investigations into why your guilty pleasures chose you

Last Sunday of every month, we gather online to investigate what our romance cravings know.

No assigned reading—just bring whatever romance is calling to you and discover why it chose you.

Together we explore how these "guilty pleasures" might actually be sovereignty training manuals disguised as happy endings.

Free to join, rich in discovery.

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Some doors only open when
we stop trying to return to who we were.

Where are you in your story?

Just realized the old story ended

Ready to cross the threshold

Seeking fellow travellers