You know how stories end? Slowly, then all at once.

The career that fit like armor now feels like a costume.

The relationship script you memorized has no next lines.

Even your spiritual practices taste like yesterday's bread.

You're between stories.

And despite what everyone tells you,
this isn't a problem to fix.

Explore Threshold Guidance
A woman with reddish hair sitting on a large piece of driftwood on a beach with tall grass and the ocean in the background.

Meet Your Guide

I'm Vanessa. I guide people through thresholds—those times when life unmakes us so we can become. Through astrology, story medicine, and old-fashioned witnessing, I help you romance the unknown instead of white-knuckling through it.

Currently tending:

  • Individual threshold guidance for life's crossings

  • Hosting: For Your Pleasure Book Club

  • Podcasting about courting change with the curiosity of lovers

  • Writing on why romance novels might be archetypal medicine for the times

Learn my Approach

Some doors only open when
we stop trying to return to who we were.

Where are you in your story?

Just realized the old story ended
Ready to cross the threshold
Seeking fellow travellers